If Anna Jarvis hated Mother's Day back then, she would despise it now. CNN) Mother's Day means big business for retailers. This year is no different -- shoppers will spend an average of $180 per mom . If you hate all of the commercialization behind the day that celebrates moms, imagine how Anna Jarvis would feel now. The holiday's founder worked so hard to get the world to give moms everywhere a shoutout. But before her death, even she had to admit she had some regrets about starting Mother's Day. If she were alive now, she'd probably be living her worst nightmare. She just wanted to honor her mom Long before her death, Jarvis' mom Ann Reeves Jarvis hoped someone would dedicate a day to honor mothers. When she died on May 9, 1905, Jarvis set out to do just that. She began campaigning not only for her mom but for moms everywhere. It started off with her hometown of Grafton, West Virginia, which takes credit for hosting the first offic...